[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/co-by-ste-nikdy-nemali-povedat-svojmu-dietatu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/co-by-ste-nikdy-nemali-povedat-svojmu-dietatu\/","headline":"\u010co by ste nikdy nemali poveda\u0165 svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u?","name":"\u010co by ste nikdy nemali poveda\u0165 svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u?","description":"\u017dia\u013e, rodi\u010dia a deti s\u00fa \u013eudia a nie s\u00fa dokonal\u00ed. Ke\u010f ste rodi\u010d a\u00a0c\u00edtite sa frustrovan\u00fd, m\u00f4\u017eete svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u poveda\u0165 nie\u010do bez rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eania. Ni\u017e\u0161ie uv\u00e1dzame","datePublished":"2019-11-10","dateModified":"2019-11-10","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4006af731f458a56e90e1a4ecbb37f08f11b51b80cb9267b6a6e5547922ff49d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4006af731f458a56e90e1a4ecbb37f08f11b51b80cb9267b6a6e5547922ff49d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kulau.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a301014_w16701_t1558507554.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a301014_w16701_t1558507554.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/co-by-ste-nikdy-nemali-povedat-svojmu-dietatu\/","wordCount":405,"articleBody":"\u017dia\u013e, rodi\u010dia a deti s\u00fa \u013eudia a nie s\u00fa dokonal\u00ed. Ke\u010f ste rodi\u010d a\u00a0c\u00edtite sa frustrovan\u00fd, m\u00f4\u017eete svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u poveda\u0165 nie\u010do bez rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eania. Ni\u017e\u0161ie uv\u00e1dzame niektor\u00e9 veci, ktor\u00e9 by ste nikdy nemali poveda\u0165 svojim de\u0165om.„Prial\/a by som si, aby si sa nikdy nenarodil\/a.“ \u017diadne die\u0165a by nikdy nemalo po\u010du\u0165 svojho rodi\u010da takto rozpr\u00e1va\u0165. Aj ke\u010f ste na svoje die\u0165a nahnevan\u00ed rad\u0161ej si zahryznite do jazyka, ne\u017e poveda\u0165 nie\u010do tak\u00e9 krut\u00e9. Toto by nielen\u017ee zranilo city die\u0165a\u0165a, ale po\u0161kodilo by to aj jeho sebavedomie a\u00a0malo by siln\u00fd pocit, \u017ee je nechcen\u00e9.\u201ePon\u00e1h\u013eaj sa, lebo \u0165a tu nech\u00e1m.\u201c Deti nerozumej\u00fa pojmu \u010das ako dospel\u00ed. Ak va\u0161e die\u0165a m\u00e1 strach z toho, \u017ee bude opusten\u00e9 alebo sa strat\u00ed, ke\u010f vyhl\u00e1site nie\u010do podobn\u00e9, bude sa b\u00e1\u0165 ove\u013ea viac. Pok\u00faste sa zisti\u0165, pre\u010do sa mot\u00e1 a\u00a0uvedomte si, \u017ee rob\u00ed, \u010do je v jeho sil\u00e1ch, sna\u017ete sa ho preto pos\u00fari\u0165 bez toho, aby ste v\u00a0\u0148om vyvol\u00e1vali strach.\u201eNikdy ni\u010d neurob\u00ed\u0161 poriadne.\u201c Ke\u010f toto vyhl\u00e1senie rob\u00edte znova a znova, va\u0161e die\u0165a sa \u010doskoro za\u010dne c\u00edti\u0165, akoby nevedelo robi\u0165 ni\u010d spr\u00e1vne. Za\u010dne sa zam\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, pre\u010do by sa v\u00f4bec malo ob\u0165a\u017eova\u0165. Sk\u00faste pou\u017ei\u0165 fr\u00e1zu \u201eChcel\/a by som, aby si to urobil\/a t\u00fdmto sp\u00f4sobom.\u201c Bu\u010fte konkr\u00e9tny v tom, \u010do chcete, aby pochopilo a dok\u00e1zalo splni\u0165 to, o \u010do ste po\u017eiadali.\u00a0\u201ePrial\/a by som si, aby si bol viac ako tvoj brat \/ tvoja sestra. \u201cNikto nechce by\u0165 porovn\u00e1van\u00fd s niek\u00fdm in\u00fdm. Ka\u017ed\u00fd chce by\u0165 ocenen\u00fd za to, k\u00fdm a\u00a0ak\u00fd je. Tak\u00e9to v\u00fdroky ved\u00fa len k tomu, \u017ee sa va\u0161e die\u0165a c\u00edti nedostato\u010dn\u00e9 a\u00a0podporuje to s\u00farodeneck\u00fa rivalitu. Die\u0165a, ktor\u00e9 po\u010duje tento druh v\u00fdpovede, m\u00f4\u017ee \u010dasto c\u00edti\u0165, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017ee dosiahnu\u0165 ni\u010d dobr\u00e9, preto\u017ee nikdy nebude tak dobr\u00e9 ako jeho\/jej s\u00farodenec. Namiesto porovn\u00e1vania va\u0161ich det\u00ed si uvedomte, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a je in\u00e9 s vlastn\u00fdmi siln\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami a schopnos\u0165ami. Oce\u0148te rozdiely medzi nimi a milujte ich za to, k\u00fdm s\u00fa.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u010co by ste nikdy nemali poveda\u0165 svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u?","item":"https:\/\/www.kulau.sk\/co-by-ste-nikdy-nemali-povedat-svojmu-dietatu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]